tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187164070937704663.post2476349822799251904..comments2023-06-18T11:06:27.891+02:00Comments on Musings of an I.T. Girl: Life CVStacehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07907346657510908857noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187164070937704663.post-27726699468303191782010-07-08T08:00:21.725+02:002010-07-08T08:00:21.725+02:00I suppose emotions at the good things is the right...I suppose emotions at the good things is the right way.<br /><br />Going through old photo's with my parents whilst in the UK last week the other thing that struck me is that it seems an age ago that I was the bullied, short, skinny kid. It's just not me anymore...<br /><br />The first session was good. And today, if my courage doesn't abandon me, Stace will be going. Should be interesting for the neighbours :)<br /><br />StaceStacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07907346657510908857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187164070937704663.post-3305028055334458822010-07-06T09:27:46.025+02:002010-07-06T09:27:46.025+02:00I think that feeling distant from the bad memories...I think that feeling distant from the bad memories right now is a good thing. That's the stuff your therapist will want to explore with you. You will learn to release that emotion in a controlled environment, with an impartial party to help you view things more clearly. <br /><br />I'm very excited for you. Therapy can be such a positive experience!Leslie Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15373261212549008939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187164070937704663.post-68255285443439244932010-06-29T08:23:02.854+02:002010-06-29T08:23:02.854+02:00Lynn: I'm not sure how big a task it was to be...<b>Lynn:</b> I'm not sure how big a task it was to be honest... It semed daunting at the start of it. But once I started to actually write it seemed to come flowing out.<br /><br />I know that I have missed a lot out, but if I was to put everything in there I think that it would be far too long to be useful :) All the important bits are there, and as an insight into my life so far I think it suffices...<br /><br /><b>Bree:</b> Posting it??? Maybe I'll do sections, maybe not... My mum asked if she could read it. I said no emphatically :)<br /><br />StaceStacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07907346657510908857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187164070937704663.post-17309455711713406412010-06-26T15:21:48.230+02:002010-06-26T15:21:48.230+02:00I have a horrible memory and would have only gotte...I have a horrible memory and would have only gotten about 5000 words at best. <br />Will you post your story? god knows I like long posts. :)<br /><br />Bbreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03028183508512140743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187164070937704663.post-37842900470011510242010-06-26T00:20:00.729+02:002010-06-26T00:20:00.729+02:00Sometimes detactment from memories isn't a bad...Sometimes detactment from memories isn't a bad thing. It can let you look at something you once found upsetting (and the opposite) and wonder why you felt that way.<br /><br />Equally, there's stuff that isn't nothing but almost pure emotion: first love, first death, etc. Events that'll always be with you and at the risk of sounding melodramtic: events you don't get over, just used to.<br /><br />That Life CV sounded like a task and a half... even for a blogger :)Lynn Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00876715474502367377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187164070937704663.post-81889858427350412022010-06-25T07:58:24.291+02:002010-06-25T07:58:24.291+02:00Lisa: I (conciously) have nothing against my emot...<b>Lisa:</b> I (conciously) have nothing against my emotions coming out, but I think that constantly being told that boys don't cry during my formative years has made it very difficult. I'm happy that that I connect to the happy memories though!<br /><br /><b>Sarah:</b> This isn't even for the clinic at the VU, this is just for my therapist. He asked for it so that he could get to know my background, and who I have been throughout my life a little before our next session. If they need a life story at the VU though at least I now have it written...<br /><br />StaceStacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07907346657510908857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187164070937704663.post-3658965392667899852010-06-25T04:49:01.997+02:002010-06-25T04:49:01.997+02:00I'm just glad that i didn't have to write ...I'm just glad that i didn't have to write something as complete as you and Lisa have had to do. But strangely enough I wrote my life story after I started writing some intense poetry which was triggered by my one year experience in Vietnam. Writing my poetry forced me to remember my prior life experiences as a father, husband and military veteran.<br /><br />SarahKay & Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04244257765709660605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187164070937704663.post-80334517807391153162010-06-24T23:42:09.280+02:002010-06-24T23:42:09.280+02:00Yes I did nearly 8,500 words. Like you it was wond...Yes I did nearly 8,500 words. Like you it was wonderful to get it out on papare in 1 place.<br />I personally think its good to let your emotions come out. They say things that sometimes we dont listen to. Ignore them at our peril.<br />I look forward to hearing form you soon.<br />xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com